It takes courage and for man especially to fall in love because of the fear of the suffering if the person he will open up all of himself to her doesn’t love him back . Men are not born with ability to easily understand of how women operate.
Sometimes it’s simple factors that can bring everything together or apart .
6 REASONS WHY MEN LEAVE THE WOMEN THEY LOVE:
1. HE FEELS THAT SHE’S TRYING TO FIX HIM.
Feeling that he’s not enough, his flaws are huge, and he can’t be himself without judgment, he starts making escape plan.
Albert Einstein said, “Men marry women with the hope they will never change. Women marry men with the hope they will change. Invariably they are both disappointed.”
2. HE IS THREATENED BY THE WOMAN’S SUCCESS.
In University of Florida, men experience a huge blow to their self-esteem when their women succeeded , especially in direct competition. A woman’s success has a negative manner on man views to the future of the relationship.
Man simply can’t join to a woman in her success because he is comparing his failures.
3. SHE NAGS ALL THE TIME.
Men can zone out a woman’s voice most of the time but constant nagging can draw him away because he needs to feel appreciated.
To a man, a woman who nags is the least sexy creature on the planet.
4. LACK OF INTIMACY.
Men needs intimacy just as much as women so if he doesn’t get it he may leave the relationship to seek that connection with someone else.
A man will leave a woman who will not participate in intimate encounters with their partner because he needs to feel that he is the most attractive person in her life.
5. SHE COMPARES HIM TO OTHER MEN.
Man hate to listen to a woman talk about past relationships and if she talks that’s the beginning of the end.
A man believe he is the only one that matters right now.
6. EMOTIONAL CO-DEPENDENCY.
Men need their space, need their friends and if he fells that he has lost his freedom to participate in sports, outings or social gatherings with his friends, he might leave.
A healthy relationship requires that both parties have their own set of friends and hobbies.
Men truly fear losing their freedom.
Men can love women very strong and in return he expectation to be appreciated, respected and supported.
If he thinks that he is NOT the hero of the story, he will most probably leave.