Because of your smile, you make life more beautiful. – Thich Nhat Hanh
First, you must understand basics of “attraction” and physical appearance.
#1: Our physical appearance is a mirror of how we feel inside.
#2: Physical appearance is only one of the factors that determine our level of attraction to someone else.
- There is also our behavior and how we conduct ourselves .
#3: Attraction can be intimate or platonic.
- Attraction, a manifestation of our personal energy will attract or repel others.
While reading you’ll notice things that make us less attraction are more behavioral in nature.
HERE ARE 7 THINGS THAT MAY YOU LESS ATTRACTIVE – AND HOW TO REVERSE THEM!
1. MAKING EVERYTHING INTO A COMPETITION
Some competition is good but comparing ourselves to other people, is unnecessary or even pressuring others to compete with us.
Why is this unattractive?
Nobody wants to be around someone insecure who spend all the time seeking recognition.
People should be focused on achieving goals for personal reasons what will bring a sense of personal fulfillment, not used as a reason to feel superior to others.
2. ACTING RUDE TOWARDS OTHERS
This is a no-brainer: rude people are not attractive.
Being polite is a necessity for a productive relationship.
It’s not difficult to be respectful to others.No need to exacerbate conflict when it can be avoided.
3. HAVING AN ATTITUDE OF SUPERIORITY
Do you think that you are better than everyone else? If so, it’s most likely, people don’t have a favorable opinion of you.
Remember , we shouldn’t be judgmental towards ourselves or others if we want to be respected.
4. INCESSANTLY COMPLAINING
Here’s an experiment: loudly complain about something in public and watch the expressions of people around you. Yes – that is real disdain on their face.
Do some constructive dialogue with someone instead of complaining because if you complain you will only increase hostility.
5. CONSTANTLY INTERRUPTING OTHERS
Interrupting someone is disrespectful and abrasive and will kill any chances of a relationship.
Try to better yourself in this respect requires us to be more conscientious of others and to leave them alone when they are in the middle of something.
6. NOT LISTENING WHEN SOMEONE’S TALKING
Communication is essential elements of any relationship.,so we must listen to others when they are attempting to speak.
We mustn’t be RUDE!
7. MAKING CONFLICT FOR NO REASON
Nobody wants someone who is constantly stirring up trouble.
By being such a person instead of attention, you might invoke disdain and even be ignored.
So stop making drama in order to feel important…and it really is that simple.
Via: powerofpositivity
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